Monday, August 2, 2010

Invaded....


Good Monday morning all! Yup I has been invaded...by a visitor to my blog that I would rather not have pop on by. My Ex has found my blog..and his parents I am guessing. When they came on out to Idaho for Hanna's graduation..I tried to be gracious with his parents and offer them a few pictures of Hanna and Kate..as I have lots of them. It was a small gesture..but as Hanna is now 18 I figured we were all grown up enough to play nice. Yeah would seem not so much. I neglected to notice that my watermark was on at least one of them..which of course led right here. My bad. Was quite annoyed with myself about that.

So when I knew he had been here reading my blog..it really bothered me..made me annoyed and stop and think about what I wanted to add here. But...ya know that warrior woman I was talking about...well she is back and feeling abit well...scrappy shall we say. I will not shut myself away from who I am here because he can read it..nor will I go private..I will not be bullied by this person ever again. Although I might start moderating comments. We shall see. Ok Ann I am channeling my inner Xena..where is my freaking sword!


Happy Monday all, Sarah :)

23 comments:

Jeanne said...

A Tom Petty song comes to mind...I Won't Back Down.

We are here for you! And will stand behind you for support!

Be strong! ♥

Audrey said...

Or the Helen Reddy song: I Am Woman!
Sara....stay true to who you are, no matter who may pop in to visit! You are a brave, courageous and GOOD woman - who cares what Mr Ex thinks?
I have missed you! Good to be re-connected.
Love and hugs
xoxoxo

The Girlie-Queue said...

Love You Most *AWESOME* Warrior Woman! :) Sorry... but the C*(&$*( Lion is in the back of my head right now saying, "Put'em up, yaaahh, put'em up. I'll clobber'em" LOL Girl, I think this was a most excellent test to show that metal of yours. *S*O*L*I*D* is what you are woman♥

Gail H. Ragsdale said...

I am so sorry. Moderation of comments sounds good.

Gail H. Ragsdale said...

Also, them reading your ABOUT ME section must be bothersome to them as you are very happy in your marriage. That and your posts about the abusive marriage you escaped :)

Rue said...

He can stuff it if he doesn't like your blog. I have no patience for ass-hats.

Live your wonderful life, and don't waste a second worrying about what someone else thinks!

Sarah said...

Giggle Rue...ass-hats...love that! Thank you all and big hugs :)

Dede said...

Oh Sarah, don't you just love it. No matter if they are right next door or hundreds of miles away, they still need attention. When I got my divorce, I tried so hard to find him a girlfriend/wife. Didn't want him to have time to play games with me or the kids. Moved 5500 miles away, he wasn't happy and didn't want us to be happy either. So I did the only thing left for me to do, hit him HARD in the bank account. He didn't want to play any more after that. You stay that very strong woman that you have become, no backing down or changing for anyone or anything! Remember we are all here for you!

You would think that at our age, the games would be over....

(((HUGS)))

Leone said...

Pathetic, some people just can't move on and don't care about the effect their actions have on their kids. Stay strong, be yourself.

Snap said...

You GO Sarah. Is his problem if he can't handle the truth. Bet they don't like that you are happy. If you need a dragon ... just call.....

ox

magikalseasons said...

A person from ones past shouldn't be concerned about what the other is doing in the present. Unless they have not moved on and then well they need too. Because now matters! The truth is Now is a gift that's why it's called the Present! :)

Christine said...

The bad people from our lives will always try tp find a way back and the brave thing to do, as you have, is to not allow them to change your life. When he finds out that you are not going to let it get to you, he will sulk back to where he belongs!

Be brave,
Christine

Diva Kreszl said...

please tell me there is a way for you to block him from reading your blog???

Sara said...

Oh my... well hopefully he can find something better to do with his time than to read his ex's blog (although... it is a wonderful blog, but you know what I mean).

Just keep being you... he has no power over you. The power is in the present moment... and you have the power Sarah.

hugs

TechnoBabe said...

Absolutely, do not give him any power or his family. You got away from the abuse and it i no longer in your life.
Good for you to be a mature woman with the ex and his family. Also good for you that you are strong enough to stand firm.

Sherry Byrum said...

You go girl! Swing that sword! Feel your own power!
It is a balance act dealing with these people who choose to be immature isn't it? :)

yoborobo said...

I'm proud of you, Xena! You hang tough, girl. xox! Pam

umbrellalady said...

Sarah - I thought about your situation and feel that maybe it is a good thing because it allows you to be the one in control. You have created a life separate from them and it is a good, happy life. You are proud of all that you have accomplished and you should be.

I don't think that you should even give him/them a second thought when writing - you didn't before and shouldn't now. You go girl! We are all behind you.

Debra She Who Seeks said...

Jeez, has your ex and his parents not moved on with their own lives? Surely they have better things to do than to "monitor" a former relative's blog!

The Strawberry Mallard said...

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.........want me to mail Becky out for a week or two.....that will help keep EVERYONE in their place.....you channel that warrior XENA and Becky Bomber too.
Love to you angel,Nancy

Sarah Lulu said...

The photos was a nice gesture and nothing bad will come of it.

The next step for you perhaps is being yourself no matter who can see....WITHOUT even worrying about it. xx

Karen D said...

you go on with your bad self Warrior Woman.. we all need a little Zena in ourselves..

Namaste Friend
Karen

Seeker said...

Love your statement "I am channeling my inner Xena..where is my freaking sword!" Just copied it and posted it on my office door with a picture of Xena holding a disc and looking baffled...perfect quote for my day! And yes, I am giving you and your blog credit --happily! Thanks for the motto of the day! :-)