tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post1851989774089373424..comments2024-01-25T05:38:45.384-08:00Comments on Cottage Garden Studios: Quilting Bee #35Sarah Sullivanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03835112406617937224noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-86866626750586235472009-12-14T09:34:15.016-08:002009-12-14T09:34:15.016-08:00I need to shed all of the excess time I just seem ...I need to shed all of the excess time I just seem to waste on nothing... not playing with my kids, not cleaning, not crafting... I seem to lose so many hours of the day doing I honestly don't know what.Emmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14675419215475635276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-69988315143304061212009-12-14T06:00:42.680-08:002009-12-14T06:00:42.680-08:00Ah, Sarah, I hear ya...And I think you're abso...Ah, Sarah, I hear ya...And I think you're absolutely right and also on the right path. It's hard to say no to friends, but you must be a friend to yourself, too. That's a hard lesson to learn. But things will get better this year. They have to, right? You know I'm in the next boat over from yours... ;p)Love ya and will talk to you in the next day or two. Hang in there, honey. Big hugs. xoxoBarbaraBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14602177425483410112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-40198681036053840312009-12-13T22:29:09.593-08:002009-12-13T22:29:09.593-08:00Oh, I hear you, Sarah! I need to reorganize, set p...Oh, I hear you, Sarah! I need to reorganize, set priorities and move. Wish my muse would give me a clear sign...stregatahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14573668708723922929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-61945508796460340712009-12-13T21:31:23.575-08:002009-12-13T21:31:23.575-08:00To thine own self be true, Sarah!To thine own self be true, Sarah!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11619082746615372159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-39038644487504255242009-12-13T16:36:59.097-08:002009-12-13T16:36:59.097-08:00I am prioritizing also Dear Quacker girl...Im goin...I am prioritizing also Dear Quacker girl...Im going thin....Love ya girlie<br /><br />xoxoxoxoxoxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11456151120093929991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-61745554743023797032009-12-13T16:34:48.046-08:002009-12-13T16:34:48.046-08:00Hi Sarah ~ Ah yes, our muse. We really do need to...Hi Sarah ~ Ah yes, our muse. We really do need to keep them close and listen. I'm with you, shedding some concerns (intertwined with people) that no longer feed my soul or bring me joy. Sometimes we just hold on to things for no good reason. Time to say goodbye and move on.<br />Stay true to yourself and happiness will come!<br />Take Care, <br />BridgetHeart of a Cowgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18131600639744298923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-80989243156242227162009-12-13T16:00:45.604-08:002009-12-13T16:00:45.604-08:00I need to get rid of the idea that going out takin...I need to get rid of the idea that going out taking pictures takes priority over everything else.<br /><br />But I can't, so I'll just stay totally disorganised, and spend every spare moment with my one love; birds and nature.<br /><br />That's two, I know, but you get the idea lolholdingmomentshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16455039696354576430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-12763446264718590192009-12-13T15:31:31.822-08:002009-12-13T15:31:31.822-08:00Sarah, once again you voice the same concerns that...Sarah, once again you voice the same concerns that I'm having to deal with too. But the few things that would be easiest to give up, are ones that I'm also wanting to, and need to embrace for myself.<br />As you may remember, my Hubs has cancer and has been living with it for a number of years now. As time has passed, he is less able to do things around here, with it falling on my shoulders.<br /><br />At the same time, my Mom, who is in her mid 80's, has had increasing health issues, and is now starting to show signs of Alzheimer's. I'm an only child, and my step-Dad died 10 years ago, so her care is up to me. She currently refuses to move in with us, or into a continuous care facility. I do her shopping, and take her to her appointments.<br /><br />Then, this past Summer, my Hubs was diagnosed with Lewy Body Disease. A disease that combines the mental problems of Alzheimers with the physical challenges of Parkinsons. Although he is showing the first signs, they put him into a study immediately, which is a good thing. But I'm already seeing a slight decline from where he was in September, when he was tested.<br /><br />It is just over a year ago, that my Hub's oncologist, and then, in his very next appointment with his surgeon, both separately told me that I need to do something for myself. Something that is not related to either my Hubs or my Mom. .something that I enjoy to get my mind off of everything, even for an hour a day. <br /><br />The easiest thing for me to do, was to take up stitching again, so I did. Last winter, every evening after dinner, I would sit and stitch, and it did help. But then those dormant creative ideas started swirling around in my brain, while I calmly drew colorful threads through fabric. But my ideas had nothing to do with sewing. And now, while I still want to finish the projects I started, my Path is taking me in new directions.<br /><br />I was born into an artistic family. My Dad was a professional, and my Aunt, a stay at home Mom of the 50's, also made money with commissioned paintings. My son is an excellent artist, winning art scholarships for college, and now my older Grand daughter has followed in his footsteps. I'm so proud of them both! <br /><br />And me? I can't tell you the number of times over the years that I've had to put my creative dreams on hold due to one circumstance or another. I'm not asking for sympathy or pity, it was just the way it had to be.<br /><br />And, it may happen again here, but I'm fighting it every step of the way. I've gotten numerous signs that this IS the time for me to explore new avenues. I may fall flat on my face, but I picture myself creating, and I'm loving it. In fact, the only way that I can get to sleep at night, it to start creating in my imagination, and then throughout the night, I dream up all sorts of fanciful things. I'm keeping a journal of my ideas, so when the stresses of the day bore down on me, my dream world won't disappear.<br /><br />This holiday season, I've had continual back problems, and my heart hasn't been in all of the things that I normally love to do. .plus I'd love to just spend the time on my art instead, but I'm doing this for my Hubby. He loves the decorations, and I'm realistically thinking about how many more he will be able to enjoy, so it is worth it to me, to do this for him.<br /><br />I'm aiming for after the holidays again, like I did last year, each evening, only this time, it won't be stitching! :-)<br /><br />So yeah! If anyone can figure out how to cram a few more hours into a day, without sacrificing sleep, please put me at the top of your notification list! :-)<br /><br />Thank you Sarah, for providing another cleansing breath of fresh air, clearing out the mental cobwebs!<br /><br />As for the quilt people's responses, I am stunned!! You were showcasing their work, there were no negative attachements to it, and it was some free publicity! It wasn't like you were trying to claim it or copy it for your own gain. How sad.<br /><br />Now. .pass me a plate please. All of that shopping this afternoon has made me VERY hungry, and I love breakfast skillets for supper! :-)Suziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04050428036946794512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-7606620156955163852009-12-13T15:19:00.321-08:002009-12-13T15:19:00.321-08:00Sarah, you just take care of you and don't spr...Sarah, you just take care of you and don't spread yourself too thin. I have to be more organized next year as I feel I have wasted some of my days. So I am planning on scheduling myself better just with everyday things. I wish you all the best my friend. Also toxic anythings are out of my life, that has to be for my sanity, says a crazy Canadian. lol. big hugs.Cindy https://www.blogger.com/profile/03552572705763406197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-56951801208701305302009-12-13T13:19:21.059-08:002009-12-13T13:19:21.059-08:00Hi Sarah, I am so with you and your post. Ihave ma...Hi Sarah, I am so with you and your post. Ihave made some choices as of late that are helping. I have learned to say no and not feel quilty. I am more in tune with life and family. Ihad been trying to help a friend and she really took advantage of me to the point my health was taking a toll. So I made the decision that this friendship had turned toxic and I quietly ended it. It was hard but it was for the best. I now have more time for my art and I am so enjoying life. Have a happy holiday Sarah. Warmly SharonWildflowerhousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15897609431263814815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-51706010737633854212009-12-13T13:04:27.506-08:002009-12-13T13:04:27.506-08:00meant to type "without wanting OR knowing, go...meant to type "without wanting OR knowing, gobble you up". :)Bonnie Zieman, M.Ed.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00282469017360136275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-33576612371812894942009-12-13T13:02:58.250-08:002009-12-13T13:02:58.250-08:00Oh Sarah, you are such a wise lady - and with so m...Oh Sarah, you are such a wise lady - and with so many talents and responsibilities and friends....clearly spread too thin. I would miss you if you never commented on my blog (a lot!), however, I would rather know that you are putting your health, your family, and your artistic talents first.<br /><br />It's all about keeping our faith with our fundamental priorities. You are so talented that beyond primary duties to self and family you have a 'duty' I think to make sure you develop your artistic endeavors - a gift to the world and your family.<br /><br />You are so lovable. But all of us who love you could, without wanting your knowing, gobble you up. Protect yourself and your talent.<br /><br />Love, Bonnie XOBonnie Zieman, M.Ed.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00282469017360136275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-38041299945349821752009-12-13T11:58:47.242-08:002009-12-13T11:58:47.242-08:00Good for you! Take the steps to let go of some thi...Good for you! Take the steps to let go of some things so you can enjoy the rest of your life more.CiCihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08615265608675467505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-38418317714070309532009-12-13T11:54:56.351-08:002009-12-13T11:54:56.351-08:00My dear Sarah, your muse is one smart lady! As i w...My dear Sarah, your muse is one smart lady! As i was reading your post, a wave of frantic panic came over me as i thought you were not going to blog anymore! Nearly fainted! Honey, you do what you got to do, and I know you will do it, you are amazing!! It is hard, we want to make the best out of life, and enjoy it too, but as your muse said, you can spread yourself too thin! Don't we all at times? I wish i was beside you so i could give you a big hug, as i have read your blog for about a year now, and you surprise and awe me everytime and I have loved watching your spirit grow. Such a inspirational lady you are! Lets spread those wings and fly! BTW: angry emails from quilters? Just you forward them emails on to me! Hehe! ((squishy hugs!!)clairedulalunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13016107591509306202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-86889040766626265472009-12-13T11:43:40.714-08:002009-12-13T11:43:40.714-08:00I think we all relate to not enough time ... there...I think we all relate to not enough time ... there should be at least 8 days a week, with each day at least 30 hours long! (I bet that wouldn't help.) For the next coming months, my sole role will be to help Mr. Dragon get well ... to manage his cancer treatment ... to live fully with faith and hope. To care for myself so that I can care for him. To love, laugh, live and conquer! <br /><br />Hugs--Snaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16648866385164116020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-28186571824373783412009-12-13T11:13:34.593-08:002009-12-13T11:13:34.593-08:00Oh how I can relate Sarah!! I too have had to reo...Oh how I can relate Sarah!! I too have had to reorganize and give a lot of thought to how I spend my time. Time is precious. I've met so many wonderful people on MySpace, Facebook, on here, the art groups, the Black Hat and I love meeting people but there is only so much time. I too have had to drop a couple of groups. Ebay has been a huge disappointment to me this year. I've been selling on Ebay since 1999 and this is definitely the worse year we've had as far as sales go. Some people have become so special to me they are like family, including you, and I will always make time for them because they encouraged me through some rough spots and have given so much of their selves to me. I have found myself spending so much time online my painting has been neglected which is what started the whole thing to begin with. So I think it is good, we take a look back at the last year and regroup and organize our time. Don't give up on your art, the economy will change. Do what makes Sarah happy!! lots of hugs!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08990684536046097505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-87145006106280034992009-12-13T11:12:43.109-08:002009-12-13T11:12:43.109-08:00It's so unfair that there are only 24 hours in...It's so unfair that there are only 24 hours in a day, LOL! But you're right, we must be selective in the use of our time. Sometimes brutally selective. No one can do it all! Blessings to you, Sarah!Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7245705742183322956.post-86313465548472317152009-12-13T09:42:27.187-08:002009-12-13T09:42:27.187-08:00hi sarah...i just posted a new giveaway if you wan...hi sarah...i just posted a new giveaway if you want to enter hop on over!jaz@octoberfarmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17249328159454897124noreply@blogger.com